My Parents Divorced And Made Me Choose

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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2018
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    This is Ruth. Her story is kind of sad, because it's about how her parents recently got divorced. Ruth’s parents were married for 20 years, and at least in her eyes they’d always seemed like the ideal couple. It’s true that they were pretty different, but she thought it was that classic case when two people complete each other just like two pieces of a puzzle. Her dad is a big, quiet man, always ready to give a kind smile to anyone. Her mom is the exact opposite - a firework of a person. She’s always talking or doing something, laughing noisily and having arguments with people. So, what did they have in common? RUTH. She was an only child and they both adored her.
    Some time after her 15th birthday, Ruth’s parents said they needed to talk to her. She hated that “We need to talk” stuff, and straight away felt pretty nervous. Her bad feeling was correct, as she soon heard that phrase every child dreads: “We decided that we need to divorce. You’re grown up and we hope you understand us.” Well, she acted very considerately, and didn’t ask a thing about what had happened. But one thing bothered her above all. How come she’d never notices they weren’t getting along anymore?
    All of a sudden their life became a real hell. They started the divorce process like two civilized people, and kept it up like that when dividing their assets...until it came to the most precious thing - their daughter. Both her mom and dad wanted her to live with them, and was determined to stand their ground. “Mom? Dad? I’m a person, not a thing! Maybe you could ask me what I want?” Ruth thought. Now Ruth had always known she would need to grow up one day, but didn’t expect that it would have to happen so soon.
    The three of them were still living together, but it was no longer their nice cozy home anymore. Ruth noticed one thing in particular that was worrying her a lot. Her mom was trying to win her affection in any way possible. She started buying her expensive stuff and took her out to spas and restaurants, and generally started acting more like her best friend than her mother. It was nice, but didn’t give her a good feeling. The worst thing was that when they were alone she always tried to convince Ruth that her father was a weak person or that he was too busy to give her attention, and plenty of other not very nice things. Whereas her dad was acting like he’d already lost - he was there always looking sad, eating his dinners all alone and staring at her like a kicked dog.
    Right before the court date, Ruth accidentally overheard something super-painful. Her mom and dad were having a private conversation, and she heard her mother say: “If you claim that you can’t take care of Ruth, I’ll let you see her freely anytime you want; otherwise I’ll accuse you of being violent and will do everything I can to limit your time with her. Do as I say, because you know that she'll choose me anyway!” Ruth felt like she’d been struck by lightning. Her eyes were opened at once to just how manipulative her mom was. And this blackmail was horrible! She heard her dad give in to her mom just so he would have the opportunity to see her. She was overwhelmed, and at that moment made her decision. The next day, to everyone’s shock, she said that she wanted to live with her dad. Her mom looked like she’d been slapped in the face, and her dad burst into tears right there in front of everyone.
    Afterwards, Ruth stayed on to live with her dad, and once her mom had left she felt bitter inside. With their “friendship” over, she called Ruth from time to time just to tell her what an ungrateful traitor she was. Ruth didn’t know how to answer her. Ruth was convinced that she had done nothing wrong, though. Whereas her dad was now totally happy, always caring, always asking for her opinion and giving her nice treats. She now had lots of freedom, which was really handy for a 15-year-old girl.
    Ruth wanted to go overnight to a music festival, and her dad on this occasion stood firm and said that he wouldn’t let her go because she was too young. She cried and yelled but he said it wasn’t up for negotiation. Desperate to go, she suddenly shouted at him: “You know what? If you don’t let me go, I’ll call mom and ask her to let me live with her!” That kicked dog expression appeared once more on her dad's face; he just said “Ok. Do whatever you like,” and left the room in silence. Ruth stood there unable to believe how much she’d just screwed up. She felt so ashamed!
    At that moment, she realised how much she had inherited her mother’s personality traits. She had that same trait of being a shameless manipulator that Ruth detested her for. But soon she also realised that she could understand her mother a little better now: she had manipulated Ruth and blackmailed her dad because she had been desperate, and she did it for something way more serious than her daughter’s petty teenage whims.
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  • BL Yaoi
    BL Yaoi 7 годин тому

    Just like me

  • Breeana Fifield
    Breeana Fifield 7 годин тому

    I am only eleven years old and my parents got a divorce
    I've been forced to only see my mother once every school holidays I loved my dad but at my age it was to difficult to only have one parent in the house
    A few months later I over heard my mum and dad talking on the phone my mum said she was sick and only had a few more weeks to live I ran to my bed room and cried my dad walked into my room acting happy like he always does and found me crying in the corner I told him that I over heard him and mum on the phone he said that he had arranged a plane for me to go see my mum
    I walked into her hospital room to see hooked up to all these machines and medicines we had only been staying in London for a few days when mums health started deterating quickly i lay by her side when it happened I heard her machine flatline and doctors and nurses ran in to help her but it was to late she was gone
    I miss my mother dearly but I have had to learn life with out her and if your going threw a situation like mine leave a comment and you can share your story with me

  • Jan Guz
    Jan Guz 8 годин тому

    I don't know the feeling , cuz my parents are together . Sorry for those who know.

  • Vacation Time
    Vacation Time 9 годин тому

    That is sooo sad😮😦😩😖😫😭😥😢

  • M. J
    M. J 9 годин тому

    Poor kid

  • Guy Brown
    Guy Brown 10 годин тому

    The picture isn't me and I kind of know what you went through when I was 3 my dad was arrested and that was the last time I've ever saw him and I don't even know what he is like plus I can see my trates that I get from him

  • Saraa Misheel
    Saraa Misheel 10 годин тому

    I would choose mom because my dad is a horrible person

  • Applesauce Productions
    Applesauce Productions 11 годин тому

    Wow once I had to face this but I couldn’t choose I had to live with my dad so 1 like = confidence for being in a nice and more comfortable life

  • Met Product33061
    Met Product33061 12 годин тому

    😇

  • Kittens-are-cool
    Kittens-are-cool 13 годин тому

    When you screamed at your dad and he got sad i acually cried no joke😭😭😭

  • Un Known
    Un Known 14 годин тому

    Ur actually mixed with ur dad and mom

  • Lou Chhang
    Lou Chhang 14 годин тому

    my parents do the same thing

  • Arshpreet Sidhu
    Arshpreet Sidhu 14 годин тому

    are they back together now?

  • Elena Keam
    Elena Keam 14 годин тому

    that is so sad

  • XxcAution
    XxcAution 15 годин тому

    Guys my mom keeps playing my dad with the schedules I go with him. I was supposed to be with him just this weekend but she cancelled it. Also there’s a huge Christmas party at my dads where I meet all of my cousins and uncles but I’m afraid she will refuse it. My dad says if she doesn’t let me go, I call the cops. Idk guys I need help ASAP! I just feel hella bad for my dad. Like fuck and it isn’t good with my lil brother and I. I’m just so pissed because of this

  • Your Gacha Girl
    Your Gacha Girl 15 годин тому

    But i didnt get to choose

  • Your Gacha Girl
    Your Gacha Girl 15 годин тому

    Omg were likethe same

  • Haley Newness
    Haley Newness 16 годин тому

    🥺😢😭😭

  • Haley Newness
    Haley Newness 17 годин тому

    🥺😭😭😭😭

  • Christy Luong
    Christy Luong 17 годин тому

    This story is just like my life, my mother was a demon and my dad was a angel. But I couldn’t choose who I can go where, I had to be with my mom and I loved my father more than my mother. I was told that my mother is in pain but I do love her but love my father more because he cared for me and my siblings than money -Please like if your story is just like me!

  • Christian Viray
    Christian Viray 18 годин тому

    Was very sad

  • Alexander Hamilton
    Alexander Hamilton 18 годин тому

    My parents are divorced so I stay a weekend with my mom then one with my dad and I go to my dads on Wednesday and back to moms on Sunday

  • Jacky Lara
    Jacky Lara 18 годин тому

    This is happening to me 😅😥😥😥😓😓😓😨😨😰😳😰😳😰

  • Yellow Yakira hsc
    Yellow Yakira hsc 18 годин тому

    In my story I was only 8 and my dad had cheated on my mom I didn’t understand I was confused it was blurry I ran to my room and tried to ignore the fighting but then when I opened my bedroom door my dad was packing I didn’t know what was happening my heart was breaking but my mom was pregnant at the time with my little sister (she was ok) but it hurt her for weeks and weeks I suddenly grown fury and anger at my dad I never wanted to be with him for what he did and I always declined his calls but then I had to go one weekend with my dad and one with my mom I had a new stepmother and she was okay a few years later she gave birth to my half-brother I love him very much and my sister was born throughout those years as well but then my dad bought a store and worked another job just so he could pay Chile support but he couldn’t and I got mad he never gave me and my sister attention because he was always “working” but then I noticed that my stepmom was being selfish and asking my dad for money that was supposed to be mine to buy food for us but she blackmailed him and I was sad I started noticing that all these years I was selfish not noticing the pain my parents were going through to take care of me and my little sister it hurt me I started answering his calls spending more time with my parents instead of asking them for stuff and being mad at them but I noticed that my sister and brother were picking on to the selfishness I had even though they are little I am still trying to help them not be like me not going through the pain the rudeness and the selfishness and I am still working with them and trying to build a nicer relationship to n my family like trying to tape something back together there will always be a scar but I know I love my mom and my dad and I always will and I’m trying to stay positive and it’s working all I have to do is believe that we *can* do it and we *can* be better then we were before 🤗💓

  • Emmanuel Harper
    Emmanuel Harper 19 годин тому

    before i even saw this video my mom and dad have already divorced but i have no choice i have to be a certain age to choose who i want to live with and im only 9 so by law i have to live with my mom i mean its not bad its just my dad has no one else and he is having christmas eve alone all i want is for my family to come back

  • Robert Larios
    Robert Larios 21 годину тому

    Awwwwww that's a cute story

  • Sonic Classics
    Sonic Classics 22 години тому

    MY DAD AND MOM DECORCED I HAVE TO LIVE WITH MY GRANNY I HATE YOU I DISLIKED AND UNSUBSCRIBE

    • Eric Anderson
      Eric Anderson 20 годин тому

      Lmao why are you dislike cause of that

  • Daisy Jones
    Daisy Jones 23 години тому

    💔💔

  • Lustiges Mädchen
    Lustiges Mädchen 23 години тому

    My parents are divorced and I don't even care...I'm 15 too😅😅😅

  • Sophia Adventure’s
    Sophia Adventure’s 23 години тому

    This is a beautiful story

  • DirtyPrancing
    DirtyPrancing День тому

    I'm concerned that her mother called her names for doing what was best for herself, and she ended up saying she understood her. That's great you understand why she does the things she does, but does that mean you shouldn't protect yourself from her still?

  • Neda Frd
    Neda Frd День тому

    That just made me cry I swear

  • San and Lin ' s Production
    San and Lin ' s Production День тому

    Ruth is a wonderful and understanding person :' )

  • Tatam Cadungog
    Tatam Cadungog День тому

    i have a family secret.....

  • GABRIELA KELLY
    GABRIELA KELLY День тому

    My parents devoured but got back together 🤔🤔🤔

  • Saisha Merchant
    Saisha Merchant День тому +1

    Even I have divorced parents I live with my dad

  • Traya Marston
    Traya Marston День тому +15

    the dad ate dinner alone? i’m crying 😭

    one like = 1% more happiness for him :)

  • Helena
    Helena День тому

    Almost exactly my story.. just that my Mom isn't that rude to my Dad.
    My parents has been divorced now for over 2 years and still live with me and my 2 brothers in one house and it's SO DAMN stressful..
    Can anybody relate or has an idea what to do to feel better? Neither my Mom or my Dad would leave us so I have to wait at least 2 more years ...

  • czahnuni Hnuni
    czahnuni Hnuni День тому

    Just the same as my parents my mom is also bad

  • Connor Burns
    Connor Burns День тому

    That was so beautiful 😭😫 and so sad 😞

  • Lord Sandwich
    Lord Sandwich День тому

    r/raisedbynarcissists

  • Avion8
    Avion8 День тому +1

    I would choose.. nobody.

  • Chelsea Martin
    Chelsea Martin День тому

    😭😭😭😭 my perant actually b-broke up

  • Cynthia Brown
    Cynthia Brown День тому

    Poor dad

  • ashlyn taylor rock star
    ashlyn taylor rock star День тому

    My parents divorced I always go back and forth and when I do I cry cause I miss my mom and then when I go to my moms house I cry cause I miss my dad its hard I wish they would just get along so we don't have to go back a forth I cry and cry but I got used to it

  • Magmatrick22
    Magmatrick22 День тому

    I feel sorry for the mum and the dad

  • Ryan Peters
    Ryan Peters День тому

    2:39 when you go through the little door and me your other mother.

  • Jiddy 372
    Jiddy 372 День тому

    My parents broke up (I say that because my parents never got married due to financial issues) when I was 2 years old. Im with my mom mondays - Fridays, while with my dad Friday nights - Monday Mornings. I'm currently used to this. Although it does suck.. my dad is a very sweet and.. "anti-social?" Person.. while my mom is very strong to her beliefs and has pretty bad anger issues. A lot of times in my life I have been asked the question of "whom do I want to live with?" Or "You will have to choose which parent you want to live with one day" and I really don't like to think about that.. if I were to be asked who I love more.. I wouldn't answer, but in my heart I believe that I love my dad more. Due to the fact that I share a lot of traits with him. Although I do love my mom very much.. and to think of having to choose one parent is truly heart breaking. My mom has a tendency though.. of threatening me that "if I don't do THIS or whatnot.. that she will have it arranged that I live with my dad 24/7" No matter how much I love him.. being told that does hurt in a weird way.

    [B]Not sure why I typed this super long story.. highly doubt anyone will read it to the end.. but thanks if ya did xD

  • Isabellalovegamer360 roblox
    Isabellalovegamer360 roblox День тому

    Ok my parents are same

  • top kunt
    top kunt День тому

    BEGONE THOT

  • Jordanliam Agapie
    Jordanliam Agapie День тому

    The video got to me it is just that I can not find a way to accept my mom's apology if she would ever apologize she abused me and did everything to hurt me, my biological dad never talked to me any more and my step dad I'd in jail but I love him more than anything he helps me get through it he calls every day but I still have to live through the struggle of living with a step family and that my biological parents and family do not love me anymore but I think that I am happy where I am and yes people still ask why I have a different last name and i am ok talking about it soon I am going to change my last name from Carr to Agapie I can't wait but it will take a little longer because it is not my birth parents that are changing it for me. I hope that this will inspire you to stay strong and that you are not alone we will stay strong ang get through life not the easy way but the hard way. And we will survive with the strongest hearts in the world. My name is Jordan A. Carr and I am going to make it through the struggle of living with the truth. This is all because of a drug called heroin. This can kill you so please never do it and protect your family so you never have to go through this or put anybody through this. Love you all and stay safe- Jordan A. Carr❤.

  • Ashton Ashcraft
    Ashton Ashcraft День тому

    J

  • Tsagaanaa Mr
    Tsagaanaa Mr День тому

    Live with both 😥

  • Fatima Sandez
    Fatima Sandez День тому

    It was soo sad

  • Emma Ellie
    Emma Ellie День тому

    My parents have beeen not together mu whole life

  • Emma Curtis
    Emma Curtis День тому

    🥺🥺😢😢😢😢😢😢🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😢😢🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢

  • Hannah U
    Hannah U День тому

    Wow☺

  • YFD_BEATS
    YFD_BEATS День тому

    i have the same but my mom is the nice one i am going through the same thing but my dad i haven't see in at least for 7months

  • Julisa Gorostieta
    Julisa Gorostieta День тому

    Ya

  • George Gebhard
    George Gebhard День тому

    I went through this kind of experience ugg it's bs

  • xK0uL
    xK0uL День тому

    You're not actually a good person for doing so... You could've chosen your dad much better staying with this villian woman.

  • Ram hlimi
    Ram hlimi День тому

    hey don't worry my mom and dad keep arguing and i cried too

  • LAUREN MCCOY
    LAUREN MCCOY День тому

    I would like to tell my story it’s very sad......

  • becky 123
    becky 123 День тому

    This made me cry.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • mittens kittens
    mittens kittens День тому

    By the way I fort she had a little sister and that the moms hair was ginger

    because she said it in one of her other stories ummmm?? Lie mayby?

  • Exxcuse me ?
    Exxcuse me ? День тому

    Women are vindictive creatures

  • Carina the pirate Fox
    Carina the pirate Fox День тому

    What a brave girl
    ...
    I'm so sorry for her

  • Jaesa Sylvester
    Jaesa Sylvester День тому

    0:23 country accent anyone

  • XGamerWolf HD
    XGamerWolf HD День тому

    Im so so sorry about you...But stay strong you can keep Take care of you!

  • Rochelle lavista
    Rochelle lavista 2 дні тому

    My dad is a little mean to my mom but my mom always thinks my dad is cheating but he's not

  • Leia Brookes
    Leia Brookes 2 дні тому

    When my parents separated, my dad tried to ‘parentally alienate’ my mom from me... only after my mom threatened to take me and my sister away from him, he stopped. It screwed over my emotions (which is a bitch for my drama class). I’m now in therapy for it, and trying to strengthen my relationship with my dad while also trying to see my mom as who she is, not who my dad said she was.

  • xXI’m_POTATOEXx
    xXI’m_POTATOEXx 2 дні тому

    Don’t worry I understand what your going through because I’ve been through the same thing but I didn’t have a choice whether to be with my Mum or Dad so I ended up being with my mother and I didn’t have much of a relationship with my dad until I realised about the relationship and the similarities between me and my dad so that also gave me a better relationship with my dad.

  • Ronald Danraj
    Ronald Danraj 2 дні тому

    Well as you see I don't know WHO to choose

  • GRN Teemo
    GRN Teemo 2 дні тому

    My parent have break up too

  • Tina Bazina
    Tina Bazina 2 дні тому

    80% comments about how they feel bad for dad
    20% comments about how their parents got divorced

  • Christabell Playz
    Christabell Playz 2 дні тому

    My mom and dad is fighting much but not devores just like need more times need 7 Monthes

  • Gwen Chaisson
    Gwen Chaisson 2 дні тому

    Fuck that mom

  • Molly Lee
    Molly Lee 2 дні тому

    I have the same situation but gf bf, mum and dad. but I'm done with my dad because he was trying to make my mum miserble. He sent me a gift and tried to bribe me with mone. thankfully I refused.

    • Molly Lee
      Molly Lee 2 дні тому

      I was 10 at the time

  • that normal guy
    that normal guy 2 дні тому

    This is probably me in a couple months

  • Grainne Cherifi
    Grainne Cherifi 2 дні тому

    You made me cry

  • Grace  Gemoto
    Grace Gemoto 2 дні тому

    i wish i have a dad like you but he died when i was young but i have my parents not that little nice sigh thank you for sharing this video

  • ChuTuber 11Kid
    ChuTuber 11Kid 2 дні тому

    OoOoOoOoOfFfFf

  • 편집Rose
    편집Rose 2 дні тому

    I Cried cuz im in the same situation..

  • Kamel Awadab
    Kamel Awadab 2 дні тому

    Me to

  • The Awesome Meg
    The Awesome Meg 2 дні тому

    Sleep one day at that house sleep one day at that other house. That could be good

  • Allison Estrada
    Allison Estrada 2 дні тому

    That was not sad

  • Leirah Balictar
    Leirah Balictar 2 дні тому

    I cried so much

  • Caleb Waititi
    Caleb Waititi 2 дні тому

    New video: "How my mum forced me to become a feminist."

  • iiGachaTV
    iiGachaTV 2 дні тому

    I almost cried for the dad.

  • Elijah Shinn
    Elijah Shinn 2 дні тому

    One day I hope this happens to you 👨🏻♥️👩🏻

  • Elijah Shinn
    Elijah Shinn 2 дні тому

    It must be very hard for you you were sooo strong on how you overcame it.👍

  • Julia Defrancesco
    Julia Defrancesco 2 дні тому

    Why the hell would you go back to your verbally abusive mother, just because your father wouldn't let you go to a MUSIC FESTIVAL?! LIKE... WTF?

  • Ravenverse YT
    Ravenverse YT 2 дні тому

    I am going through the same thing and I chose my dad but he has heart disease and when he dies I have to chose who I live with its hard by the way my name is jordyn street

  • THECatPRINCESS09 LOVER
    THECatPRINCESS09 LOVER 2 дні тому

    hmmm??????how do i send my story??

  • THECatPRINCESS09 LOVER
    THECatPRINCESS09 LOVER 2 дні тому

    how to send my story?

  • Thomas Shipe
    Thomas Shipe 2 дні тому

    that poor dad

  • Sophia Nguyen
    Sophia Nguyen 2 дні тому

    My parents argue but always make up.

  • Sienna Plays
    Sienna Plays 2 дні тому

    My parents divorced and I was five

  • Chris Manning
    Chris Manning 2 дні тому

    Poor parenting....