My Parents Divorced And Made Me Choose

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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2018
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    This is Ruth. Her story is kind of sad, because it's about how her parents recently got divorced. Ruth’s parents were married for 20 years, and at least in her eyes they’d always seemed like the ideal couple. It’s true that they were pretty different, but she thought it was that classic case when two people complete each other just like two pieces of a puzzle. Her dad is a big, quiet man, always ready to give a kind smile to anyone. Her mom is the exact opposite - a firework of a person. She’s always talking or doing something, laughing noisily and having arguments with people. So, what did they have in common? RUTH. She was an only child and they both adored her.
    Some time after her 15th birthday, Ruth’s parents said they needed to talk to her. She hated that “We need to talk” stuff, and straight away felt pretty nervous. Her bad feeling was correct, as she soon heard that phrase every child dreads: “We decided that we need to divorce. You’re grown up and we hope you understand us.” Well, she acted very considerately, and didn’t ask a thing about what had happened. But one thing bothered her above all. How come she’d never notices they weren’t getting along anymore?
    All of a sudden their life became a real hell. They started the divorce process like two civilized people, and kept it up like that when dividing their assets...until it came to the most precious thing - their daughter. Both her mom and dad wanted her to live with them, and was determined to stand their ground. “Mom? Dad? I’m a person, not a thing! Maybe you could ask me what I want?” Ruth thought. Now Ruth had always known she would need to grow up one day, but didn’t expect that it would have to happen so soon.
    The three of them were still living together, but it was no longer their nice cozy home anymore. Ruth noticed one thing in particular that was worrying her a lot. Her mom was trying to win her affection in any way possible. She started buying her expensive stuff and took her out to spas and restaurants, and generally started acting more like her best friend than her mother. It was nice, but didn’t give her a good feeling. The worst thing was that when they were alone she always tried to convince Ruth that her father was a weak person or that he was too busy to give her attention, and plenty of other not very nice things. Whereas her dad was acting like he’d already lost - he was there always looking sad, eating his dinners all alone and staring at her like a kicked dog.
    Right before the court date, Ruth accidentally overheard something super-painful. Her mom and dad were having a private conversation, and she heard her mother say: “If you claim that you can’t take care of Ruth, I’ll let you see her freely anytime you want; otherwise I’ll accuse you of being violent and will do everything I can to limit your time with her. Do as I say, because you know that she'll choose me anyway!” Ruth felt like she’d been struck by lightning. Her eyes were opened at once to just how manipulative her mom was. And this blackmail was horrible! She heard her dad give in to her mom just so he would have the opportunity to see her. She was overwhelmed, and at that moment made her decision. The next day, to everyone’s shock, she said that she wanted to live with her dad. Her mom looked like she’d been slapped in the face, and her dad burst into tears right there in front of everyone.
    Afterwards, Ruth stayed on to live with her dad, and once her mom had left she felt bitter inside. With their “friendship” over, she called Ruth from time to time just to tell her what an ungrateful traitor she was. Ruth didn’t know how to answer her. Ruth was convinced that she had done nothing wrong, though. Whereas her dad was now totally happy, always caring, always asking for her opinion and giving her nice treats. She now had lots of freedom, which was really handy for a 15-year-old girl.
    Ruth wanted to go overnight to a music festival, and her dad on this occasion stood firm and said that he wouldn’t let her go because she was too young. She cried and yelled but he said it wasn’t up for negotiation. Desperate to go, she suddenly shouted at him: “You know what? If you don’t let me go, I’ll call mom and ask her to let me live with her!” That kicked dog expression appeared once more on her dad's face; he just said “Ok. Do whatever you like,” and left the room in silence. Ruth stood there unable to believe how much she’d just screwed up. She felt so ashamed!
    At that moment, she realised how much she had inherited her mother’s personality traits. She had that same trait of being a shameless manipulator that Ruth detested her for. But soon she also realised that she could understand her mother a little better now: she had manipulated Ruth and blackmailed her dad because she had been desperate, and she did it for something way more serious than her daughter’s petty teenage whims.
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  • ACTUALLY HAPPENED
    ACTUALLY HAPPENED  9 місяців тому +5369

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    • Tu Huynh
      Tu Huynh 10 днів тому

      K

    • Madix Galloway
      Madix Galloway 22 дні тому

      im deppresed AGAIN

    • thethreeblairs1
      thethreeblairs1 23 дні тому

      One like on this comment is 32 for the mom
      One reply is one slap for her.
      Both is 64 slaps.

  • Ali hussain
    Ali hussain 4 години тому

    You're a spoil brat if this video didn't show your dads feelings I would have left I am not happy with the ending

  • Zhou wei
    Zhou wei 16 годин тому

    wow that was pretty sad that made teenage sis cry i almost cry btw felt bad for dad

  • Toba Taco
    Toba Taco 18 годин тому

    I don’t really like it when Parents started a fight
    I worried about them a lot ..

  • AlexStreams
    AlexStreams 19 годин тому

    I love both

  • Turkish-manT-Series Pie
    Turkish-manT-Series Pie День тому

    You only chose who was richer and that gets you more things not everyone is rich like your mom

  • roxannel pierce
    roxannel pierce День тому

    😇👿😔

  • YOUR LIFE IS A LIE
    YOUR LIFE IS A LIE День тому

    Am I the only one who thinks that dads r the best bcz they are the one to have s*x to the female to have a baby

  • Abe Farah
    Abe Farah День тому

    ahh like me 😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😔😔😟😟☹☹😦😭😭

  • Lara Duca
    Lara Duca День тому

    So good

  • Ryan
    Ryan День тому

    Fathers always get fucked. This is why my father got estranged. And i regret it.

  • Victoria De la rosa
    Victoria De la rosa День тому

    Her mom is a 🤬 horrible person

  • Jrockx 25
    Jrockx 25 День тому

    So you left your dad? Goddam you are something else girl

  • Kris Petcharawises
    Kris Petcharawises День тому

    My dad and mom argreed on splitting the time

  • Imagine Wagons
    Imagine Wagons День тому

    Well at least you get a cool step dad named Craig

  • Perler Plays and Other Things
    Perler Plays and Other Things День тому

    If you did a bad thing for a good reason you still did a bad thing.

  • MixyFN
    MixyFN 2 дні тому +1

    Just live like 2 or 3 weeks at your dads then 2 or 3 weeks at your moms, its simple.

  • Zander Wood
    Zander Wood 2 дні тому +2

    My parents got a divorce when I was 6.
    1 like= 1 pray my dad wins custody
    -Zander

    • Bosco's 1# Fan
      Bosco's 1# Fan День тому

      Also again! I'm a big Imagine Dragons fan too

    • Bosco's 1# Fan
      Bosco's 1# Fan День тому

      Also I have a song for you to add to your playlist! Take me to church by Hoizer that's one of my favorite songs

    • Bosco's 1# Fan
      Bosco's 1# Fan День тому

      +Zander Wood Aww thanks you have my blessing with you Zander! :3 your reply will be remembered! Also I know what it is like my mum is drunk alot but she is trying to quit my parents divorced when I was 6 or 7

    • Zander Wood
      Zander Wood День тому +1

      Thank you. You have a good heart. I would give you my blessing if I were a God.

    • Bosco's 1# Fan
      Bosco's 1# Fan День тому +1

      Yeah go Zanders dad! I MEAN MEOW

  • Amazing monster
    Amazing monster 2 дні тому

    That was me at 7 years old😢

  • K Masterz
    K Masterz 3 дні тому

    Same story but I’m not 18 so I can’t “choose”

  • Andrew Ellis
    Andrew Ellis 3 дні тому

    if my parents ever get divorced and i had to choose i would ask to stay with one parent for a weak then the other

  • Abbodi TS
    Abbodi TS 3 дні тому

    I am so sorry for you 😭😭😭😭😭

  • Zombie Gamer Girl90
    Zombie Gamer Girl90 3 дні тому

    Atleast your parents divorced when you were 15 mine did when I was a toddler 3years old to be exact I didn’t even get a choice for whom I wanted to stay with my mother just took me away...

  • Fox Fox
    Fox Fox 4 дні тому

    same Situation i have😢😅

  • sate biggund
    sate biggund 4 дні тому

    People don't say "at once" this much.

  • Olivia Hansen
    Olivia Hansen 4 дні тому

    Omg this is exactly my family....beset for the devorce....

  • Liliana Mora-Russell
    Liliana Mora-Russell 4 дні тому

    I don't care what my mom does I will always choose her but I don't know about her

  • Avery & Kynzee
    Avery & Kynzee 4 дні тому

    Wow

  • Taco Productions USA
    Taco Productions USA 4 дні тому

    That dad deserved it he was already given up and super depressed so he deserves to have what he wants.

  • Discovaria
    Discovaria 5 днів тому

    Basically u have DNAs of your mother which makes you yell and shout

  • Hawraa Sayed
    Hawraa Sayed 5 днів тому

    I have a story similar to this one even my mom my mom is very like a file wark but my dad is an angel he always when my mom hits me my dad he will come and put me in my room and then they talk it is the best thing I will always say my dad is the best

  • Mehral Nasibi
    Mehral Nasibi 5 днів тому +1

    I love my parent and my parents love each other i live happy with my parents

  • Ahmad Al Qassem
    Ahmad Al Qassem 6 днів тому

    😞😞😞😞😞😞 Look I'm not cussing at your mom but your mom is a bitch and you shouldn't do that to your dad (BTW I am not cussing at you just telling you

  • HappyCupcakes87
    HappyCupcakes87 6 днів тому +1

    My parents are the same

  • Ms Tree
    Ms Tree 6 днів тому

    1:25 grown up 15 is not grown up

  • Cesar Tero
    Cesar Tero 6 днів тому

    I felt bad to the dad to

  • Love Yourself
    Love Yourself 6 днів тому

    I cried..

  • Aerial Vortex
    Aerial Vortex 7 днів тому

    My parents might make me choose as well....I dont know what to do...

  • Lia :D
    Lia :D 7 днів тому

    I swear the question: who do you love more? shouldn’t exist

  • Kumiko Ichijo
    Kumiko Ichijo 7 днів тому

    When i was 9yrs old, my parents were planning to separate so they would ask us who do we love more? It hurts me so much that i can't even cry. Everytime they asked me i woupd stay silent and never answer them.

  • Klara Rebecca
    Klara Rebecca 7 днів тому

    This was intesting 😄😄

  • Pathikrit Ghosh
    Pathikrit Ghosh 7 днів тому

    Just because you and your mom have the same traits that does not justify that both she and you were right.. You have dominating personality.. Its not right to blackmail no matter what you want..

  • Daily_ Shime
    Daily_ Shime 7 днів тому

    Her Story Almost Maid Me Cry😭😭😭

  • Yum Kawaii
    Yum Kawaii 7 днів тому

    I think we have the same story kinda

  • Kc Moreno
    Kc Moreno 7 днів тому

    *4:06** Cause She Is Already*

  • GACHA Life
    GACHA Life 7 днів тому

    Why do people feels bad for the dad the mom had to get REGECTED by her own daughter! The dads lucky

  • ITTZ_Paula Fonseca
    ITTZ_Paula Fonseca 7 днів тому

    My parent divorce is way worse

  • Evolet Vargas
    Evolet Vargas 7 днів тому

    Am I the only one who thinks that the girl is ungrateful to her dad?

  • Jose Nieto
    Jose Nieto 8 днів тому

    Its like my life but i still visit my dad

  • Alicia Durán
    Alicia Durán 8 днів тому

    Stay with your dad

  • Ellieplays And pranks
    Ellieplays And pranks 8 днів тому

    My parents divorced

  • Artur With skills
    Artur With skills 8 днів тому

    OMG. I NEED TO CHOOSE TOO:( BUT i talk to peaploe too understant... LIFE SUCKS

  • Garcia Guest
    Garcia Guest 8 днів тому

    My parents are divorced

  • binpetsecret
    binpetsecret 8 днів тому

    I wants die

  • April Ros
    April Ros 8 днів тому

    I had kind of the same problem as yuo

  • The Rising Rainbow
    The Rising Rainbow 8 днів тому

    Omg 😮 this made me cry inside because my parents got divorced and my dad doesn’t know how to communicate with me, because of my medical condition

  • How To Draw
    How To Draw 8 днів тому

    I like my dad better to be honest 😂😂

  • Celine Banboukian
    Celine Banboukian 8 днів тому

    2:05 "Each of them wanted me to live with *him* ." are they gay :OOOOOOOOOOOO

  • elizabethtolworth1
    elizabethtolworth1 8 днів тому

    When I was younger I would normally stay at home with my dad while my mom was at work and until I was 5 I found out my dad is a selfish guy and he had been so rude to me and my mom but now it's me and my mom and I'm happy

  • pip geiu
    pip geiu 9 днів тому

    This helped me alot and now i think i should go live with my dad

  • Dre Dre
    Dre Dre 9 днів тому +1

    Who else pearents argue in the middle of the night

  • AmaizingAlice 456
    AmaizingAlice 456 9 днів тому

    This sounds like Alice from “ my mom woke up in a coma”

  • DXB_Maria2001
    DXB_Maria2001 9 днів тому

    You did the right thing.

  • Gervani Atkinson
    Gervani Atkinson 9 днів тому

    25 yes ago my dad went for milk and cigarettes. He came back when I was 18 and said he smoked and drink it all so he said he going to the store again, on my 21st birthday he came back with cigs and milk but told me he going to the store once more for beer. I can't wait for Dad to come home 😊😊😊🤔

  • irfet osmani
    irfet osmani 9 днів тому +1

    My parents:Tell us who you mostly like more, mom or dad?

    Dad:Dont tell mom but here you got money to say me!

    Mom:Here you got money to say I’m the one you like!

    Me:Dont worry I love both of you
    Parents:🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

  • Leonard Tenney
    Leonard Tenney 9 днів тому

    Okay maybe I'm the weirdo here but if my mom ever called me a traitor for wanting to live with my Dad instead of her manipulative ass I told her exactly where she could shove it cuz truth be told I quit caring long ago I'm not 16 my dad's in prison my mom loves me but if I ever had to choose something like that one or the other called me a traitor or ungrateful truth be told I will tell them to f*** off

  • Ruth Espinal Estrella
    Ruth Espinal Estrella 10 днів тому

    Omg I was interested in watching this video cause my parents also divorced but I stayed with my mom she is so sweet but when I heard her name omg she has the same name as me

  • Happy Catuts
    Happy Catuts 10 днів тому

    My parents are seprated. Im suppossed to meet my fathers new girlfriend on saturday...this happened so fast...if i have to choose who i have to live with im living with my mother my father is the part of my depression.

  • Pinky Gatcha
    Pinky Gatcha 10 днів тому

    My answer for whom u like more is
    Daddy

  • Toria Stewart
    Toria Stewart 10 днів тому

    SO SAD IM KINDA CRYING

  • Cindy Evans
    Cindy Evans 10 днів тому

    Wow that’s sad but a happy ending

  • Rylee Williams
    Rylee Williams 10 днів тому

    Its interesting, considering I'm going through something similar. My mum just got a new boyfriend, and he wants to move to Texas. My mum has been wanting this for a while also, so when he approached her about moving out to Texas, she readily agreed. He requested a job transfer, and if he gets it, they will be moving. So one day, my mum dropped the bombshell on me as she was driving me to school. She said she wanted to move out to Texas, and that I had a choice. She said I could stay with my birth mum, or move with her. She tried to sweeten the deal, saying that if I went with her I would get to go to public school, and offering me all this stuff. Now, I have slight social anxiety, meaning its nearly impossible for me to make friends, the only two friends i have now approached me first, so moving and starting a whole new life will be IMPOSSIBLE. And it really frustrates me considering I just got a relationship with my birth mum, and now my mum is trying to tear that away from me and shove me into her idealistic family. She wants her boyfriend to become my dad, and that's not what i want. But she doesn't care. I want to tell her that im not moving out Texas, and that i want to stay in California, but im scared of how she'll react. Help?

  • Living Creativity
    Living Creativity 10 днів тому

    Their made me cry but luckily my parents aren't divorced

  • ThatOne Boi
    ThatOne Boi 10 днів тому

    I was actually feeling sorry but when I saw how she abused her freedom like that I lost all respect and sympathy.

  • Ravenn
    Ravenn 11 днів тому

    This is the exact story as mine.

  • Queen Bee
    Queen Bee 11 днів тому +1

    The DAD
    I ❤️ my DAD
    He is amazing
    I ❤️ him so much
    He is never mean but
    So is my mother!
    But last but not least...

    THAT GIRL IS A BRAT

  • rodascharlene1
    rodascharlene1 11 днів тому

    I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t spoil you if you chose her

  • lel loa
    lel loa 12 днів тому

    Same . But my parents didn't divorce yet ,but they will. I never was really good with my mom and i want to live with my dad. Me and my mom are just beeing meaner to each other as usual . My dad is just treating me better. My mom still wants me to live with her even tho she's mean and tells me i'm the reason our family is destroyed.

  • Samah Shaker
    Samah Shaker 12 днів тому +1

    Hi guys
    My parents are fighting a lot but they are still not divorced. I feel that they will get divorce soon
    And I don’t know what to choose. My mom is always kind and she really gets me gifts a lot
    And my dad also gets me what ever I want but he gets mad quickly and doesn’t like to hear advice from someone else even from us. So pleas guys tell me what to choose.....

  • Castor Hernoe
    Castor Hernoe 12 днів тому

    Is it just me? Or is this girl in this story so spoiled?

  • Marium A.
    Marium A. 12 днів тому

    My parents got divorced yesterday 😭 😭 and it was because of my dad because he hits as all like one time i can't forget it i was 5 years old and I was afraid of darkness so i was crying and he came without telling me to stop he started hitting me until an artery in my eye burst in there so my eyes turned into red so we ran to the hospital the doctor said if he stayed hitting me 3 more times i was going to be blind (for the people who said why the doctor didn't made anything because I'm an Egyptian and in Egypt all he could do is say that he is with my mom if she went to police ) but my mom didn't want to get divorced and the violence is still going on but my mom stopped it she got divorced 😭♥️🎉i don't do i need to be sad or happy
    THE END

  • Damian Juice1934
    Damian Juice1934 12 днів тому

    It happends

  • X3ZEROZ Shadow
    X3ZEROZ Shadow 12 днів тому +1

    I almost cried when she yelled to the dad

  • Laura Sánchez
    Laura Sánchez 12 днів тому +1

    I don’t really like her mom, and I feel bad for her dad

  • Pitchakorn Kulmapijit
    Pitchakorn Kulmapijit 13 днів тому

    My parents divorced when i was six

  • candies corner
    candies corner 13 днів тому

    Yea, same thing is happening to me and I'm 11. big deal.
    *crys*

  • thotful af
    thotful af 13 днів тому

    I feel bad for the dad
    1like= 1person to cheer him up

  • The Normal Person
    The Normal Person 13 днів тому +1

    Don't they need to go to court to see who gets custody?


    Edit: I wanted to edit to add a useless edit

  • tank117
    tank117 13 днів тому

    Dont worry I also had to go through a divorce

  • Cypress' Stop Motion
    Cypress' Stop Motion 14 днів тому

    My parents are going through divorce and I love your story

  • Gaming with Doomers
    Gaming with Doomers 14 днів тому

    I chose to live with my mom thanks for your advice it helped me a lot

  • MUNIB AHMAD
    MUNIB AHMAD 14 днів тому

    Wow her dads condition is b-Ruth-al

  • Jaimie Buffay
    Jaimie Buffay 14 днів тому

    This is exactly what’s happening rn

  • Artic_ Affossum
    Artic_ Affossum 15 днів тому

    Your mom is like my dad but he comes home drunk and my mom is like ur dad

  • Saige Love
    Saige Love 15 днів тому

    This is happening to me I’m so sad 😭😭😭

  • Nicole rios
    Nicole rios 15 днів тому +1

    This is so sad and make me cry 🥺

  • Noelle Redmond
    Noelle Redmond 15 днів тому

    The girls gramma and accent keeps shifting in this video so much

  • Nikita Zakhar
    Nikita Zakhar 16 днів тому

    she said: each of them wanted me to live with HIM, from that point I knew she chose her father

  • Rotar Daria Teodora
    Rotar Daria Teodora 16 днів тому

    My parents are the same like yours.
    They didn't divorce,but i think they will do it..I'm really sad😔
    (I'm from Romania)

  • JULIUS CAESAR
    JULIUS CAESAR 16 днів тому

    I love both of my parents the same, I don't have a favorite